An Ode to My Grandfather

Dear Nanu,

I find myself sitting here, trying to capture a lifetime of memories, love, and lessons you left behind, though no words can truly do justice to the extraordinary person you were. I feel blessed to have known you, to have witnessed your quiet strength, endless generosity, and the boundless love you shared so freely with all of us, especially with Nani.

One of my earliest and fondest memories is the gentle love you shared with her. Every morning, while she was still asleep, you’d rise, make tea, and softly nudge her awake, asking with that signature sweetness, “Chai Peeyogi?” She’d respond with mock irritation, and you’d laugh, knowing she loved it just as much as you did. That small daily ritual showed me what love looked like—simple, joyful, and shared in the quietest moments.

You and Nani were best friends. You discussed everything, made decisions together, and held immense respect for each other. In a time when respect and equality in relationships were rare, you honored her strength. She managed your business while you were away, raising five kids with grace, always knowing she had your unwavering support.

Growing up, you were a pillar of strength and hard work. I remember seeing you head off to work every single day, right up until Covid. Even then, when I’d visit, you’d tell me stories of your travels in Bhutan or building a dam in Nepal. Each story was filled with your passion and perseverance, and I learned so much just by listening.

But your love went beyond words—it was in gestures, like those long walks to gather our favorite fruits and vegetables. I now realize that was your love language, making sure we were cared for, giving without ever expecting anything in return.

I know you struggled after Nani left, but your strength was remarkable. Even in your final days, you held on with resilience. I couldn’t bear to visit you in the hospital, knowing you were in pain—it hurt too much to see you so unlike yourself. Saying goodbye to you broke my heart, but I know letting you go was the most selfless thing I could do. Now, you’re reunited with the love of your life, in the peace you deserve.

You’ve left us a legacy of love—of quiet strength, respect, and dedication. You’ve left shoes none of us can fill, but we will carry forward your values and your kindness. You were a great man, Nanu, and I feel so lucky to have been loved by you.

Thank you for everything. I love you, now and always.

Forever in my heart,
Somya